Seminars
 
 


Session 1. What's Inside Your Child's Head?


This session considers the enduring question, “What's inside your child's head?”. In five lessons, Al Friesen  begins with an overview of the ENRICH program and then gets right into understanding children's behaviour and our own discipline practices. "What's Inside Your Child's Head?” helps us understand…


1 - INTRODUCTION

Do We Need the Creator?

Morality and Spirituality

Parenting Depth and Commitment

Knowing Each Other

Free Will


2 - WHY OUR CHILDREN MISBEHAVE (PART 1)

Where the Action Is

Attention Seeking

Security Produces Harmony

To Be In Control

Romance


3 - WHY OUR CHILDREN MISBEHAVE (PART 2)

To Get Revenge

Dealing with Temper Tantrums

Successful Creative Discipline

To Show Helplessness

Summary





Session 2. How Emotions Can Trap Us


In the next five lessons Al Friesen  proposes creative and effective ways for parents  to help blend three important components into a well-functioning family unit: Children, Emotions, and “Their own way”.


Al Friesen will demonstrate how parents' overzealous attempts at being “good” to their children by doing many things for the child that the child can and should be doing for themselves - may actually result in negative personal development for the child. This can lead to a weakening in the blending process desired for wholesome family-building.



INTRODUCTION

Points to Remember

Authority


1 - EMOTIONS

How do Parents Manipulate?

How do Children Manipulate?

Friendship Families


2 - LIFESTYLE (PART 1)

Introduction

Wrong Beliefs

Where the Action Is

Today's Activities, Tomorrow's Actions

The Development of Family Atmosphere and Values

Points to Remember

How to Un-complicate Life





3. Building Your Child’s Self Respect


These five lessons suggest how parents can learn to understand how praise and encouragement differ, how negative attitudes and behaviour feed discouragement, and how positive attitudes and behaviour contribute to encouragement as we foster a healthy family unit.


1 - DEVELOPING RESPONSIBILITY

Environment

Motivation

Key Point

Negative Expectations

Competition

Over-ambition

Equality


2 - ACCEPTANCE

Acceptance

Tattling

Being Positive vs. Being Critical






4. Do You Really Hear Your Children?


This session will broach this very important question. Al Friesen suggests how to build effective listening skills and show real empathy with your children by learning to graciously walk in your child’s shoes while building a healthy family unit.



1 - COMMUNICATION

Obstacles to Communication

The Importance of  Communication

Communication

Non - Verbal Communication


2 - FRIENDSHIP

Friendship and Communication

Roles Parents Play


3 - LISTENING

Listening

The Effects of Negative

and Positive Responses

 

Family Development Seminars Content with Video Introductions by Al Friesen

Program One

The ENRICH series on parenting has been used for many years to help parents with important family and child raising issues. ENRICH Ministries' outreach program produces the material in print, DVD video and CD audio format. The material is organized into five eight hour programs which can be used individually, or in group study. The videos include all the teaching material with references to true life parenting and child raising experiences. It is an informative, entertaining and powerful video presentation.


The themes and emphasis are arranged into 80, 20 minute English Lessons, with Leader's and Participant's Discussion Guides available in question and answer format to support the DVD lessons.  Each program can comprise a 20 evening study course.


5. What Is The Problem?


Al Friesen proposes creative and effective ways for parents to understand how to identify and acknowledge an issue they are facing with their children, how to examine different potential solutions, learn to determine who the problem really belongs to, and then find effective ways to express feelings to your child, as you continue to build a well-functioning family unit.


6. How to Be Responsible


In this session, Al Friesen suggests how to identify various commonly employed parental methods – authoritarian, permissive, and responsible. He then examines the effects of using reward and punishment or consequences on your child.


7. How to Avoid Being Manipulated


This next lesson's considers methods for parents become pro-active instead of reactive and, more importantly, choose the correct action, as they seek to build a healthy family unit.


8. Finding Solutions to Problems


Do you struggle with “finding solutions to problems” in your home? Most of us do. Al Friesen will suggests how to learn to understand, how to be in control in a non-threatening way, and learn to work together as you continue to build a well-functioning family unit.


Program 3


9. Being Responsible


This lesson will suggest creative and effective ways for parents to learn to assertively stand on their own when raising their children by clearly identifying their goals, by not being controlled by the opinions of others, and by and taking advantage of their own strengths, as they build a strong family unit.


10. Using Discipline


Using discipline correctly and effectively is one of the biggest challenges parents face. Session 10 examines this essential area of parenting by using discipline as a preventive measure, by anticipating the child, being creative, and creating rules that serve as a backbone for learning, not a brick wall. This is accomplished by setting up firm, friendly, fair fences, which then gives freedom to both the parent and the child.


11. Children's Needs


This session teaches parents what the very basic needs are for young people and adults alike. In general, these needs relate to their age but more specifically, that when children “set the fences” in the home, everyone becomes more insecure, and when the parents set those boundaries everyone becomes more secure.


12. Dealing with Brokenness in Our Relationships


Gives a final word to parents on dealing with problems in a step by step way. Al Friesen will also presents the “Ten Practical Commandments” to live by, and how to repair broken relationships in the home, as they seek to build a well-functioning family unit.


Program 4


13. Five Area's of Growth


Features seven lesson's which suggest creative and effective ways for children, teens, parents and other significant adults to learn how to grow and build relationships in the five basic areas of a person's life. As children grow up, they need to learn, from our example and teaching, that unless all five areas are developed and employed, our relationship building and growth is very fragmented.


14. Happier Living and Growing Kids for Jesus


The first three lesson's will suggest creative and effective ways for children, teens, parents, and other adults to learn how to find true happiness, and stop looking for it in the wrong places. The forth lesson will give us God's recipe for growing children.  Namely, the basic things they need to become what God has intended for them to become.


15. Christian Dating


Creatively and effectively teach teens, parents, and other significant adults the what, where, when, why, and how and how long of Christian dating. Very basic, practical, and safe ideas for dating for young people and adults alike will be explored.


16: What Turns Teens Away From and Toward Jesus While Growing Up in a Christian Home?


Provides a clear word to parents (and other significant adults) what kinds of things parents do that turn teenagers away from Jesus and what kinds of things parents can do that turn teens towards Jesus. We parents will have a clearer picture as to what things to avoid, and what practical things we need to embrace, as we seek to build a well-functioning family unit.




Program 5 (coming soon)


17. Anger Management


In seven lessons Al Friesen will seek to explain and effectively teach teens, parents, and other significant adults what the Bible tells us about anger, how to learn to manage our anger, how to connect with God’s strength for this, and how God will deal with those who use anger and rage throughout their lives.


18. Temper Tantrums


This set of six lessons will broach these very important questions: How do we deal with out-of-control temper tantrums among adults, teenagers, and children — in our homes?  In our schools?  In our churches?  In our neighbourhoods?  On the streets? And in our work places? 


19. Fighting Fairly


Seeks to explain and practically teach teens, parents, and other significant adults what the Bible tells us about fighting fairly in our homes, schools, churches, neighbourhoods, work places and on our streets.  He will show us how not to do it and how to do it the Ephesians 4:26 way.


20. Growing a Stronger Family


This set of five lessons will broach these very important concepts, as flagged by the following questions:  What seven pillars do mom and dad consistently live out in their lives, as models for their children and their children’s friends to learn to live by in their lives?  How do families foster unity in their homes?  What key support gifts do we give each other?  How do routines contribute to family-ness?  Which fence-builders bring security, and which rob the family of security, and why?

Program Two

Program Three

Program Four

4 - DISCIPLINE AMONGST COMPANY

Avoiding Embarrassment

Parameters

Nurturing Amongst Company


5 - WHY CHILDREN BEHAVE WELL

Parent-Child Connectors

Contribution

Harmony

Co-operation

Responsibility

Glasser

Goals of Discipline

Summary

DVD Video, NTSC, All Region

Total Length 8 Hours

Produced by Northica.media


Item MR9416 $80.00 Plus S&H


Additional Material Available:

Study Book

Audio CD set

3 - LIFESTYLE (PART 2)

Education and Training

Family Dynamics


4 - WHY A "GOOD" PARENT IS A BAD PARENT

"Good" Could Be Bad

From Your Home to Theirs


5 - SUMMING IT UP

Mixing routines, Habits, Balance,

Mistakes, and Advice from Others


3 - ENCOURAGEMENT vs. PRAISE

Which are Encouraging?

Praise Can Be Negative


4 - ENCOURAGEMENT

Encouragement

Praise vs. Encouragement


5 - SUMMING IT UP

I Don't Do What I Mean To Do

Questions for Discussion

4 - CONCEPTS THAT ENHANCE

Negative and Positive Responses

Responses of Different Parenting Styles


5 - THINKING AND FEELING LEVELS OF COMMUNICATION

Techniques for the Thinking Level

Techniques for the Feeling Level

Summing it Up

DVD Video, NTSC, All Region

Total Length 8 Hours

Produced by Northica.media


Item MR9416 $80.00 Plus S&H


Additional Material Available:

Study Book

Audio CD set